Do You Follow the Recipe?

This past weekend, we visited the Farmer’s Market.

Walking among the stalls, I was thrilled to see the colorful rows of fresh produce –a sure sign that Summer is here.

Later in the day, as I inspected my selection of fresh asparagus, baby beets, snow peas, and lettuces, I wasn’t sure how they’d be combined for the evening meal.

We ended up with soup.

I kind of tossed everything in the pot – well, except for the beets and lettuce. (Beets are probably not a good idea – they’d probably turn the soup red).

So anyway, I didn’t follow a recipe.

I didn’t need to.

The next day, as I was preparing a salad for a potluck dinner, I was following a recipe. That’s when I realized I was missing a key ingredient.

At first, I panicked.

Then I decided to make do with what I had, including my  Farmer’s Market finds from the day before.

It was strangely relieving.

And made me think about our typical approach to Rules and Following Recipes, and the like.

Specifically that, much of the time, it isn’t really necessary, although we might think it is.

Unless you’re a beginning cook, or new to the gluten-free lifestyle, being free to add lib in the kitchen is half the fun, and also wakens your creative self.

Designing a home is also a creative endeavor, and in many ways it is not much different from cooking.

You’re just working with a different set of ingredients.

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SETTING THE STAGE

“All the world’s a stage”.  Shakespeare

 

Designing an interior is a lot like creating a stage set.  

A few weeks ago, I attended Pacific Northwest Ballet’s rendition of ‘Giselle’ – a truly lovely and engaging performance.

While gazing at the pastoral stage setting – meant to evoke a hot, summer’s day – I was struck by the similarities between stage designs versus home design.

The one is theatrical, strictly for show with the sole purpose of telling a story – with all its nuances and drama.

Yet our homes also tell a story.

The story our homes tell is about the people who live there. These stories may not be as exciting or dramatic as theatre, yet there is still drama – just drama on another level.

With this in mind, let’s explore how our room settings can be a little like a stage set – the only real difference being they house REAL people, not characters in a play.

 

Scene 1:  Your Inner Stylist

When the curtain rises at the theatre, we are instantly clued in to the story that is about to unfold.

This is achieved through a number of devices, but the first thing we usually notice is the stage set, which – when truly successful – elicits a delighted gasp from the audience.

The setting for ‘Giselle’ was clearly traditional. I felt as if I’d been transported back to the 18th century, landing in a pastoral scene straight out of a rococo painting.

Everything – from the set design, costumes and music – reinforced the traditional mood of the ballet.

(Another performance might have resembled a gentleman’s study, with a multitude of books lining the shelves, a sturdy desk front and center, and perhaps a mini bar off to the side – well-stocked to accommodate any guests that might stop by – tthe message conveyed here is one of ease and comfort, in true gentlemanly fashion).

Sometimes there are no props whatsoever – just the dancers and the stage. But as with the ballet, our homes invariably reflect the style that we are most drawn to – whether traditional, modern or somewhere in-between.

 

Scene 2:  Engaging Your Senses

This is where the Magic happens.

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THE SYMPHONY IN YOUR HOME

“Symphony…is the ability to put together the pieces. It is the capacity to synthesize, rather than to analyze; to see relationships between seemingly unrelated fields”.

Daniel Pink, “A Whole New Mind”


 

Our homes are a lot like a symphony, the way the various parts come together like the parts of an orchestra.

Did you ever think of it that way?

The more prominent instruments, such as the violin or cello are like the basic pieces of furniture in your home.

Then you have the equivalent of a harp – ongoing background music that brings harmony to the mix, like the color palette that flows throughout the rooms.

In the distant background, we have percussion instruments –in your home, the musical equivalent of drums and cymbals are the accent pieces, the amazing artwork and collections that personalize your space.

As you can see, I like metaphors.

The other day, I happened to be listening to a symphony – a rare occurance, actually – and was reminded of Daniel Pink’s book “A Whole New Mind”.

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